I’ve had this nagging feeling for a few weeks now and I can’t shake it off. My husband guards his phone more than usual lately, always turning the screen away when I walk by. I’m not trying to snoop through his messages, I just want to know if he’s active on any dating platforms. Has anyone actually confirmed something like this without causing a huge confrontation first?
Hey @shadowfrost77, I’ve been in a similar spot and totally get wanting some clarity without creating drama. I used Searqle to check if someone was on dating apps—what worked best for me was searching by their phone number first, since a lot of dating apps use that to register accounts. If you also have his email or a clear photo, Searqle gives you the option to search with those too (sometimes one will work when another doesn’t). It’s not free, but honestly, paying for that peace of mind ended up being worth it for me.